Friday, September 29, 2006


Cassidy wanted to hold Doug's hand too. Posted by Picasa

Friday, September 22, 2006

Hope Mr. Rodriguez likes fire... there will be a lot of it where he is going

http://www.grandforksherald.com/articles/index.cfm?id=10877&CFID=576177&CFTOKEN=20876818

I think having to wait 6 to 8 years is stupid. I understand WHY so I don't need the lectures about people being wrongly accused and blah blah... I think its a waste of money and space to have this disgusting idiot sitting in our federal prison.... food wasted.... space wasted. Just get rid of him, he makes me sick.

I hope Dru's family feels like justice was served and can continue with the grieving/healing process.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

If you like sleeping... you're gonna LOVE this post! "Two thumbs way up" "taking entertainment to the next level"

So the in-laws are coming on Saturday morning and staying until Sunday afternoon. We're going baby shopping. Don't get me wrong... anyone who is willing to talk about my baby all day with me is on my A list.... and not only talk about but buy us stuff.... top of the A list. What is it about In-Laws thats really THAT bad... I mean Marie and Louis aren't bad at all... a little overbearing at times.. but not bad. Why does eveyone have problems with their in laws? Well except for Kevin, of course, he has the best in laws a guy could ask for.... they did create me right, and I am the center of Kevin's universe so why wouldn't he feel obligated to worship my parents? Okay seriously, no, but they are really cool as far as parents go.

I'm not used to going shopping with someone else and have that person pay for everything. I'll feel very uncomfortable taking all these things from them, but appreciate it very much, of course. While us girls are shopping, Kevin and his dad are going to attempt to cement our garage so that its not crooked because it gathers water and well... I really don't get the problem but I guess we have on, and I guess it ABSOLUTELY HAS TO BE TAKEN CARE of THIS weekend... no later or the world will end.

and it just might, you never know.

Kevin got good news today. They moved him from the Crookston clinic to the clinic in East Grand Forks, so now he doensn't have to commute everyday which means..... WE GET RID OF THE NASTY FORD FOCUS that is making my driveway look cheap. They can take that ugly car with the huge fender dent and the tape deck and give it to someone who really needs to be "safe" driving to and from Crookston every day. Kevin gets to sleep in 45 more minutes a day and he only works 2 miles from home. Plus, he gets to work with another Therapist, so he won't have such a patient overload.

my new TV boyfriend is Jeremy Sisto. (just a google image search to give you options) I first knew him as Billy on Six Feet Uner, which if everyone remembers, I was addicted to. But now he's on Kidnapped. Kevin is coming to terms with our relationship. I think it helps that I told him that, if given the chance, he can have an orgy with all the "Deal or No Deal" models, ALL of whom are his new girlfriends.

So yeah, its been really boring at our house lately. We have been hibernating all week and doing absolutely nothing, preparing and resting for this weekend. We'll need the energy. :)

Have a good weekend peeps!

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

I'm a marshmellow.

white and puffy all over. My ankles are the size of softballs. Okay, Baseballs at least.

Okay enough complaining.

This weekend was a blast! We got to the Cities late friday night and checked into our AMAZING hotel suite that Blake found for us. Two King Beds, Two bathrooms, pullout sofa, full kitchen, balcony, fireplace, loft, candy jar, large hot breakfast. It was comfy and fun. Saturday we woke up early and went to the Renaissance Festival and walked around and took in the sights and food. We saw lots of fun stuff and interesting people and costumes. After that we headed to the museum in Downtown St. Paul. We took in the Body Worlds Exhibit which was the most amazing thing I've seen. Doug doesn't want me to talk about it because they're going next month. But it was awesome, and something I will never forget. We walked around the rest of the museum and then met up with Blakes family and went to a resaraunt down the street and ate dinner with them. They're a hoot, we spent a lot of the meal laughing. We got home late and crashed.

Sunday we woke up early to start a day of shopping. We went to Ikea where we bought some fun odds and ends and then off to the Mall Of America. It was fun. We split up so that we could all see what we wanted to see. I found some maternity clothes which was my overall goal. We really just window shopped most of the time. Then we met up again and headed out of town at about 5pm

We got home at abour 11:30 and that was about it. VERY busy weekend. Tomorrow is Isabella's birthday, she turns 2! We went over to Doug and Karissa's for a birthday party. We had dinner and cake and watched Isabella open presents. She doesn't quite get the hang of the whole present gig, but she liked her new toys-even though it took forever to open them.

Tomorrow is my day off. I'm going to spend most of it on the couch with my feet elevated so I don't look and feel like a big elephant with big feet.

My tummy is getting bigger-and I'll post some pics someday. We're painting the baby's room this week-and registering for baby shower gifts FUN!

Blake, Kevin and Amber hanging out on Blakes bed :) near the fireplace that we, unfortunately, did not get to use. Posted by Picasa

Our bedroom with 6... count 'um.... 6 pillows for one bed. Very comfy down bedding and pillows... Normally I would tell you to never mind that and stay at CHOICE hotels... but Marriots are pretty darn comfy... for sure... I will vouch for htem anyday. Posted by Picasa

LIving room looking into the room that Kevin and I claimed (or rather flipped a coin for) Posted by Picasa

Kitchen and stairs to the loft area. Posted by Picasa

Ben approves this message! Posted by Picasa

AIM! Kevin paid 2 bucks to throw an axe... and miss.... 5 times. Its okay Dear, you're still my Knight in shinings.... denim. Posted by Picasa

THRUST Posted by Picasa

RELEASE! Posted by Picasa

Insult guy- you paid to be insulted by this guy and then to throw tomatos at him. It looked fun. Sucky job though. I wonder how much that guy gets paid per hour? Posted by Picasa

Opening to the Kingdom. Posted by Picasa

Snake charmer who stared at my husband while gyrating her fat hips around and fondled her nasty snakes.  Posted by Picasa

fire jugler/tight rope walker type guy. Posted by Picasa

Creepy old guy that had kids around him. He looked entertaining :) Posted by Picasa

How cool would it be to play the Harp... seriously. Posted by Picasa

Choir Posted by Picasa

"The Crew" (okay except me... who would ever want a picture of ME) :) no one apparently. My kids will never believe I was actually AT some of these events being that no one ever takes pictures of me. Posted by Picasa

Not far from here is where the Vikings got caught having a little too much fun last season... I think anyway. Posted by Picasa

Isabella was way more interested in the bow than what was inside the box... thats okay, got my money's worth out of that bow. Posted by Picasa

blowing out her candle... no that cake is not meant to have frosting.. Posted by Picasa

yummy cake. Posted by Picasa

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

ROAD TRIP!!

Kevin is still having headaches.... grrrr. Seriously, If I ever meet the person who caused that stupid car accident.... I wll hurt him. Ask him what the hell was so much more important than watching the damn road when he was driving on the WRONG SIDE OF THE HIGHWAY! Kevin can't work full days and that is causing unnecessary fricton between him and his.... boss type people. He comes home and has a headache everyday, and he feels bad that he doesn't feel up to doing much. He is on meds that aren't working, and therapy that is obviously not working. Thank God for workmens Comp because we'd be screwed if he wasn't getting paid from them for the time he isn't at work. I should make it a point, however, that Kevin doesn't complain about it. Even though I would understand if he wanted to 24/7. I would.

Anyway, Amber, Ben, Blake, Kevin and I are going to the Cities this weekend to the renaissance festival and Body Worlds exhibit. I'm excited, I haven't been to the cities in a very long time. We're thinking of going to the Mall Of America too... maybe they'll have one or five Maternity stores! OOOOOOO FUN! We're also going to hit up Ikea, Which Blake says is the best store in the whole entire world when it comes to new cool furniture... so I hope he's right. The store is huge, like 4 floors or something like that. Maybe we'll find stuff for the baby room. So we have a lot planned for out little two day trip. It should be very fun though. We're staying in a kick ass Penthouse Suite at the Residence Inn in Eden Prairie, MN. We got a package that included 4 tickets to the festival.

I hope they all understand that this 5 hour drive will more likely be like 6 hours because of all the bathroom breaks we'll be taking for me and the baby. Its just something thats gotta happen... like every 20 minutes... no seriously. I can't wait until FRIDAY!

I'm having a heck of a time finding maternity clothes. I'm too tall, and lengthy and clothes just don't fit right. All the shirts I can find right now in Grand Forks have low neck lines too, so I don't think they'd work at work when I'm bending over all the time. All the pants are too short, and NO ONE is getting any NEW stock in. ALl the stores only have like 4 racks of maternity clothes and the sizes are like XS, S, M, XXL I am none of these. I am a L.... and apparently so is every other pregnant woman in this town because they don't have anything in a Large. okay enough complaining- I'm sure I'll find SOMETHING SOMETIME in the next 3 months.

Thursday, August 31, 2006

procrastinating

I woke up late today (9:30) and when I do that, I feel lazy and the rest of the day is pretty much shot. I remember when I thought waking up before noon was early! I have a doctors appointment today with my new doctor... whom everyone thinks is the best doctors ever... so I hope they're right, it took a long time to get to see him!

My aunt Patty is staying with us tonight which means I probably should clean up a little and do the laundry. I love days off, but not when it means I haffta do stuff around the house that I have been procrastinating. Since this is the ONLY day I get off this whole week I better make the best of it, hm... which probably doesn't mean I should be sitting in front of the computer in my PJ's at noon....meh.

The company that owns our hotel (and hundreds of others in the country) is selling all their hotels... and the company that is looking at buying the hotels is coming to town tomorrow to "inspect" our property (and sister property). I was supposed to have tomorrow off. Now I get overtime instead. Don't get me wrong... any other time I would be greatful that I get the extra money. But I've been sick all week and it just won't go away.

Last week we saw "Accepted" you know the movie with that dude that is on those PC vs. Mac commercials- he's the Mac. Anyway it was a pretty good movie. A lot funnier than I was expecting. Story line is pretty predictable, but I think everyone liked it.

Okay enough... I'm going to go take a shower.

Sunday, August 27, 2006

Don't go around kissing little girls or else...

You might get a death cold.

Who thought such a cute little girl could be so disease ridden. There she is, all adorable looking up at you with big eyes and a smile and holding her hands in the air and wanting a hug and a buh bye kiss... and you give her one... and then she SNOTS all over you because she's sick... next thing you know BAM...couple of days later.... death cold.

Yestarday (arrr... I'm a pirate) Kevin, Doug, Isabella, and I went to the Farmers Market downtown only to be chased away by the MANY MANY MANY wasps that are invading the whole city of Grand Forks. I am deathly afraid of these things... I'm the one you find whipping their arms around, screaming and running in all directions away from anything that is yellow and black and has a stinger. We got to try the new eatery downtown (okay food, bad service... overall meh...)

After the Farmer's market, Kevin and I went to Fargo for a little R&R. Over the course of the day, I started feeling a little stuffy. We went shopping (got lots of cute, cheap baby and maternity clothes) and got together with Angela, whom I haven't seen in forever. SHe is moving to Washington state next month. Good luck to her... boo hoo for me. By the time we got back to the hotel last night, my stuffy nose turned into watery eyes, sore throat and muffy ears. I fell asleep at like 9:30pm, and couldn't sleep worth a damn all night.

Poor Kevin didn't get any sleep either because I was up all night caughing and blowing and sniffling... and when I wasn't awake, I was snoring because I couldn't breathe.

This morning I woke up to my cell ringing and it was work... not a good thing on a Sunday mornng.. but I answered it and it was my coworker telling me that the person coming in for the evening shift called in sick. Having a completely new staff... no one is able to work... except Blake, who is million miles away in Hastings MN, and Jan- but like she's going to work a full weekend shift... besides she had family in town.

So now I have to work... luckily I don't have to go in until 5 (to 11pm) and I still have to work tomorrow AM.

So we had to cut our Fargo trip short so I could come back here and work. But first thing was first... I needed to feel better. Problem: I'm pregnant... they ban all the good drugs for pregnant women (with good reason I know) I called my mommy and she looked up on the internet that pregnant women should not take sudifed... Kevin called the hospital and spoke to a doctor and she said, yes I can take sudifed. So we went to the drug store to buy some sudifed... but the pharmasist said No, she doesn't recommend sudifed or ANY other cold medication while your pregnant and that doctors shouldn't tell people it is okay. She tells me to get a saline solution and huff it up my nose.... yummy. Usually Pharmasts know their shit when it comes to drugs... so I took her word for it... but at the same time... the doctor and Blake's mommy (who is a nurse) said it is perfectly okay....

I bought both the nasal spray and the sudifed (as backup) I tried to use the nasal spray.... gross... it didn't work. I decided to suffer through it because the though of druggin my baby made me sad. But when we went to Famous Dave's BBQ for lunch and when I couldn't even taste my "devil's spit" BBQ sauce, I knew I had to take the Sudifed. It helped for a little while, but I'm already feeling like crap again and I have to work in an hour, and be standing in the hot laundry room folding laundry and having to be cheerful to guests when all I want to do is crawl into bed and have Kevin wait on me hand and foot and sleep until tomorrow evening.

Don't kiss little girls.

On a good note- we found the most awesome kids store in Fargo. Once Upon a Child... its a thrift type store (which we didn't even figure out until I looked at some of the tags). Their stuff is way cheap, but its all in really good condition, a lot of their stuff is new even. I got some maternity clothes (4 shirts) and baby clothes (5 outfits) for $39.00. I love being cheap and saving money!

Thursday, August 24, 2006

Mr. Mckicky Pants

There is another human being kicking me from the insides... sitting right next to all my important bits and pieces of my body that make me run and live.. and there he is kicking away like nothin' else matters. A little creepy, but the most awesome feeling in the whole entire world.
There's like another person inside with arms and legs and a little heart and little face... and he's just hangin' out while I work and eat and play cards with friends... there he is, content with just hangin' out there kickin' and punching and who can blame him really... he doesn't have anything else to do. And yes, I know its only going to get worse... harder kicks, bigger baby... yada yada yada... which brings me to my next point...

You know what question I hate. "How do you feel today?" or "How are you feeling" (more generalized) because I am required to say "great, thanks" because if I don't say great... if I tell the truth like "oh I'm a little tired or cranky, or crampy or my feet hurt or my ankles are swollen" or anything else I ALWAYS get the response "well thats nothin' wait a couple of months then you'll REALLY know what tired feels like" or "you think you're tired now, wait till the baby is born and you get 3 hours of sleep a night" or "Thats nothin' when I was pregnant... *insert personal 'i could care less' story here*"

Don't get me wrong, I don't mind advise or little stories that I can relate too. Its my first baby, I don't know everything and am interested in hearing some peoples stories. But please don't think i'm naive to the fact that its only going to get worse. I knew all this crap when I decided to get pregnant. I knew my ankles would get huge, I knew I would be tired, I knew I'd gain weight and I knew the whole pregnancy/birth process would hurt in many different ways. So when you ask "how are you feeling" and I say "tired"--- just say "thats too bad" and that'll pretty much be the conversation we were both looking for.

*end rant here*

Kevin still isn't %100 recovered from his accident in June. He has headaches everyday. I want to hunt down every red SUV registered in MN and find the guy that caused this accident and scream in his ear and pound him in the head a couple times and cause him pain...like he has done to Kevin. Eye for an eye. Kevin had a catscan yesterday and they still haven't found anything-he sees a neurologist soon, and hopefully someone can tell us what he can do so he won't have headaches anymore.

School started today for most of the state. Amanda, Blake, and any other student I know: Good luck with this semester!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

my brain feels fuzzy..... duhhhhhhhh...... uh..... hm...

I love my new video. I don't like the song THAT much but I like the concept of the video and the color. I hate the wolf, but I guess where would little red riding hood be without the wolf?

THis weekend we went to DL. We hung out at the lake and played cards with my parents and took Isabella on her first boat ride (I think she liked it... I mean, she didn't cry or anything so.) Much needed break. I thought I was going to kill someone if I had to work one more day. Usually, it doesn't get to me THAT much, but I was a real bitch on Friday to pretty much anyone.

The whole front desk staff has quit except me, Blake and Shelley. We have two newbies but they're just doing night audit on the weekends. SO we have to hire 3 new people and train them all in at once, and have a complete turnover to start September. At least its starting to slow down now that school is starting soon for pretty much everywhere.

Now if someone can explain this to me... I love and hate this song... why can't I get it out of my head... just why. I guess I like songs that I don't have to use one sinlgle brain cell to understand.

You know I really don't have much to write about. Pretty dull, yeahsureyabetchya.

Someone remind me why I'm even updating....

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Most Def in need of my day off....

It seems I'm spending a log of my time "pulling my hair out" as one person has stated it very nicely three times in 2 weeks. This person was exhaggerating a bit (okay a lot) and it got under my skin so much I was very much ready to either yell and scream or cry. Instead, I chose to studder over my words and not make it so clear that his little comment pissed me off the first time, let alone the second time. But not wanting to look like a complete asshat and fool- I just turned around and tried to ignore him. It being my 6th day in a row and 2 10 hour days in a row- I just wanted to be home on my couch watching Law and Order SVU reruns and eating oreos. Manager was gone for a week and he picks out the one damn thing that went wrong all week instead of the countless things I did correctly.

I hope I don't go bald anytime soon from pulling out so much damn hair.

whatever-- less than a week and I can stop thinking about how this pompous ass is trying to make me feel like shit and look like an incompetent idiot. But God knows I'm probably being dramatic about the whole situation, and feeling axiety about it for no reason whatsoever- I think I analyse things a little too much. I'm sure he's a nice guy, or something like that.

If you are standing in America and quoted a price for a room- chances are you are being quoted the rate in AMERICAN funds- don't be surprised when you are told in the morning that you are being charged $80.00 AMERICAN not CANADIAN or YEN for that matter.

When you have a coupon that you clipped out of a paper 5 YEARS AGO for $32.00 don't get mad when we look at you like you're an idiot and tell you that there is no way we will accept that coupon. I don't care if it doesn't have an expiration date, bitch, it is 5 YEARS OLD- use some common sense. It has hotels listed on the coupon that we dont' even OWN anymore! But if you want to waste 30 minues arguing with me and the manager- let that ruin your whole special weekend.

When I say we're booked I mean it... we have no rooms whatsoever. No "secret" rooms that we hold for people who ask for "secret hidden rooms" we don't have any, I'm not lieing... Booked up means just that, not even ONE ROOM WITH ONE BED (because people always think for some reason that when we say we're booked that we really have ONE ROOM LEFT WITH JUST ONE BED)


I can't give you a person's room number because it is against the law... not because I'm being a bitch. You are wearing overalls and you only have one lens in your glasses and you're dirty and missing teeth- and you wonder why I have to question whether you are "jenny's" dad when she is staying there alone. If you were her dad, she would have told you her room number. WHen I offer to ring her room-most dads wouldn't walk out when I handed you the phone to talk to her...

Your keys don't work because for the HUNDRED time now.. you can't put them right next to your credit cards in your wallet- it demagnitizes them and no matter how many times you tell me that's stupid (because I designed the whole key card system you know) it won't make them work any better after you put them back into your wallet.

The sign that says "eggs explode in microwave" isn't there for our entertainment- or for you to challenge this concept.

I need a credit card to guarentee some sort of payment from you. I can't just take your word that you are an honest fellow and will pay for your entire stay in cash when you checkout 4 days from now. WHen you gave me a credit card you knew was declined you should have expected me to call you and ask for another form of payment. Instead I got "you asked for a credit card, I gave one to you, I told you I would pay cash why do I need to give you a VALID credit card if I'm not charging it on a credit card" Maybe because not everyone is as HONEST as you idiot and believe it or not we've been screwed by people just like you who skipped out on their $500 bill.

I'm soooo glad I have tomorrow off!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

Titles are dumb.

TOday Kevin went to Fargo with his white Grand Prix and came home with a large black Jeep Grand Cherokee. So we have a new vehicle. It'll be nice to know that when winter comes- he'll be commuting to Crookston in a 4 wheel drive truck instead of his little death trap of a Grand Prix. Everyone is like "why would you want to purposely get a gas hog of a vehicle?" Well, easy, Altru pays for Kevin's gas. actually they over pay us (for wear and tear on person vehicles) So that is how we can afford gas for a SUV. Its a very sexy vehicle. I love it. I drove it and it actually feels like I'm riding a large car... not so much a truck.

Ray and Jennie came to town and we went out to eat with them. Now Liz- if you and Erik could come down on Sunday-that would be fun! Like a little reunion! Come on!! why not?!! huh? huh?

I showed Amanda around UND Campus today. I haven't been on campus in like a year and a half! I miss going to school- maybe I should go back and get a USEFUL degree! It was fun, and I think I helped her a little bit so she will not be COMPLETELY lost when school starts.

I'm super psyched about my cousin, Mariah, coming to UND-she moves in on the 18th and she starts working at the hotel with me the week after school starts! It'll be blast!

Now that I know we're having a boy- I can't stop buying little boy outfits. I really really really hope that he IS a BOY and there wasn't a HUGE mistake (judging by the ultrasounds though, I think we're fine)

We're going over to Amber and Ben's tomorrow because Amber has this whole big chicken that she is cooking up and she's been talking about it for almost 2 weeks so I'm REALLY hungry for this chicken- She's turning all domestic and wifely and cooking this big meal for everyone. Well- she's always been domestic and wifely but now its official!

I found out that one of my classmates died of Spinal Menigitis (sp?) I didn't know her very well at all- she was always pretty nice to me though. Its sad, I feel horrible for her family. Such a sad way to die when she was only 25 or 26.

I better get goin' I'm really just blogging to procrastinate making the work schedule.

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Peanut is...

A BOY! Thats right we're having a little boy! We are very excited. Both of us didn't really care what the sex was, but It'll be fun to have a little boy. Of course I went out today and bought cute little boy outfits. It is VERY obvious on the ultrasound that he is a BOY. That pic was taken from the bottom. So you can see his little butt cheeks and his little penis. Actually the whole time we were doing the ultrasound, he kept moving to show us that he was indeed a boy, like he wanted to make sure we knew, even when we were trying to get pics of other parts of his body like his brain and heart. All the measurments look right on, and my due date stayed the same. His spine is okay, his brain is okay and all 4 chambers of the heart are in tact. He was kicking and punching and even looked like he was knodding at us. He is healthy and now I can't wait to hold him.

Profile. He has his hands up by his face. Posted by Picasa

little foot :) Posted by Picasa

alien face Posted by Picasa

ITS A BOY! Posted by Picasa